By Shirin Yadegar

Halloween should be one of the easiest nights of childhood to love. You dress up, spend time with friends, knock on a few doors, and come home thrilled about a bag of candy. Somewhere along the way, we have added a lot of expectations to that simple formula.
There are coordinated family photo shoots, elaborate decorations, expensive costumes, and the pressure to make this year bigger than last year. For tweens, even choosing a costume can become a social obstacle course: Who is included in the group? Who gets to be which character? What happens when everyone changes their minds after one parent has already bought the outfit? (more…)


Valentine’s Day can often feel commercial, flashy, and centered on grand romantic gestures. But as a mother, I’ve come to see February 14th as something far more meaningful: an opportunity to root our families in the deeper foundation of love as action.